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R wanna kill P-kun for this...
R mean it! #rage
Labels: Blackberry, Converstation, Ramble, Random, valentine
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and haven't done anything to be called a progress...
at least... have finished my Decoration mapping for Sinema Wedding Hall... and oh not forgetting for the cute ring basket to put my Guinea Pig
for the church not yet done :( the mapping... since haven't decided which church yet...
Apa itu Decoration Mapping?
Ini sebenernya panduan untuk mempermudah orang dekor bikin sketch.
Jadi lu bisa taro elemen2 apa aja yang lu mau serta ambience apa dan jangan lupa tulis + taro gambar benda-benda apa yang lu mau di titik-titik venue tersebut.
Ini example Decoration Mapping gue *sneakpeak*:
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| Salah satu titik untuk Decoration Mapping |
Oh have I told you I'm going to use my two from three piggies to carry my ring???
Here're my super cuties of honor:
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| Her Name is Bolluw |
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| and this one is Chippy |
They will be carried in this basket... (I"ll handmade it)
also already decided the model for the suit, bridesmaid and groomsmen...but still menggalau atas warna jas between silvery grey atau dark grey atau white... #pingsan
Anyhow... catch up with you later :kiss Labels: Decoration, DecorationMapping, RingBasket, Ringpillow, WeddingPreparation
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Like I've said before...
I'm crazy about vintage-ing style..
and me with P-kun already agree about ONE hairstyle that all the men (yes I repeat: THE MEN means; my dad, his dad and our brothers) must use at our wedding...
The sleek hairstyle like the mafia in GODFATHER! yea yea yea yea!!
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| The God Father |
It'll be CRAZY wedding! LOL! but I love it and P-kun love the idea the most! Labels: Grooms hairstyle, hairstyle, WeddingPreparation
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| The Vintage Groomsmen |
Because the theme of Vintage wedding with laces and everything... Another star we musn't forget (of course I musn't forget) is my Soon Gonna Be Husband dress...
which... we both really considering making tail tuxedo to make it so vintage!
But we still keep open mind since R's mom keep protesting about the tuxedo will be useless and can't be used anymore... but, MOM! it's tail tuxedo and it's vintage! #cryingOver and when your daughter use that princessy ball gown, her man should be in TAIL TUXEDO!!! #banginghead
Anyway.. here's some of the attire that probably P-kun will like (Haven't consult it with him)
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| Tail Tuxedo |
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| Another style of Tail Tuxedo |
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| Like it the most |
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| So Damn Sexy! Especially the cane, dammit! |
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| I won't say it no more |
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| Simple but somehow so vintage |
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| Simple yet exagerating |
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| The "NOW" one is very beautiful |
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| Amazing Grey |
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| This is cute but I guess not too elegant and very not P-kun style |
Let's see what kind of clothes that will be his liking or friendly to our budget because tail tuxedo will use extra cost because the extra fabric they must use for its lengthy tail.
Now the job is: Between Jazzy hat or Tail hat or Bowl Hat
I really hope I can find the tail or bowl hat in Indonesia though ;)
another #crossfinger
Labels: grooms attire, suit, tuxedo, WeddingPreparation
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I really can't take out this picture out of my head when I call "vintage"
a dream of seeing guys in suspender and newspaper boy are playing in my head...
so I'll make it come true ;)
Ladies and gentleman, this style will surely BE my GROOMSMEN style:
How you can't die to see handsome man lining up on that sexy suspender? P-kun, you better start search for your groomsmen OR I'll choose it for you! and you already know who's I'm going to search right? #smirking #evilly
Labels: Groomsmen attire, WeddingPreparation
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Have been thinking about my bridesmaid style because my dress will be fluffy and laces and vintage... So I do want them to be dressed like that too ;) Fluffy, white but in sexy part...
So these are some examples of the models :
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| Look at the skirt details! |
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| I heart the details!!! |
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| The Back is sexy |
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| Simple version maybe? |
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| Heart this the most!!! |
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| This is SO PRETTY and vintage! |
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| Look at the back! OMG I'm dying! |
Please God... make it come trueee >o<
Labels: Bridesmaid, MiniDress, WeddingPreparation
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| A Shoes That I dreamt by Georgina Goodman |
An antique Welsh lace pump with
Scottish seed pearls and pearl-inspired heel. "I wanted to create something special with an intrinsic emotional value; something old and at the same time mirroring Kate’s fresh modernity. ... I have aimed for a balance between history and femininity fitting the occasion; a kind of luxury recycling."
Hm... karena R terinspirasi dengan vintage dan lace and pearl... R sepertinya akan membuat sepatu customade di Donnamici... dan inilah beberapa nominasi yang ingin dibuat oleh R!
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| Pear exagerating details! |
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| Lace and pearl |
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| Vintage Lace yang cantik from Valentino. I heart this the most! |
Let's hope that Donamici can make my dream come true! :crossfinger
The shoes that fits one person pinch another; There's no recipe for living that fits all cases -Carl Gustav Jung- Labels: Shoes, WeddingPreparation
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Okay... so until per today, ini yang sudah fix FIX FIX:
BRIDELABIL QUICK REVIEW
Venue : Sinema Wedding Hall Bride Gown : Kristoofer and Rick (includes accesories, veil dan sarung tangan) Jas Groom : Paket dari Sinema Wedding Hall namun harus upgrade M.U.A : Mila Dewi Katering : Gloria (tinggal DP gubuk) Dekorasi : Pake dari Sinema (belum tentuin vendor) Liputan+Prewed : 9 photography dan Paket Sinema Baju Bridesmaid : Beli mangdu atau sewa bikin baru di Moishells Baju groomsmen : Bretel+topi beli di mangdu aja yang murmer Jas 2 Papa : Jasmania.com Jas 3 Adik : Jasmania.com Baju 2 Mama : antara bikin atau sewa Baju 2 Kakak : gue suruh seragam aja beli kain (-_-") jahit sendiri MUA Keluarga + Bridesmaid+PenerimaTamu : Tim Mila Dewi Cincin : Belum tahu Mobil : Paket gedung Kue : Paket gedung Undangan : Paket gedung-> desain minta temen yang baik Souvenir : Paket gedung WO : Ada WO gereja khusus Abbalove+Paket Gedung Entertainment : MC/pemusik paketan aja dari gedung/katering. Gue nambah band gereja gue aja.
Oke Sekian review sejauh ini... dan sekarang harus mengumpulkan uang sebanyak mungkin untuk melunasi tagihan 20% dari Gedung... Huhahuha... SEMANGAT AKU PASTI BISAAA!
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R punya mainan baru this lately call: "PIXLR-O-MATIC"
silahkan digoogle aja yaaa... untuk cari tahu gimana caranya...
yang pasti,segera setelah laptop baru sampai di rumah... R langsung mendownload si Pixlr-O-Matic ini karena seru banget mainannya!
Check out beberapa hasil goblok-goblokan R :p
So fun and cute isn't it?? ;) Labels: Anonymous, PhotoEditing, Pixlr-O-Matic, Random
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Du du du du...
Setelah bolak-balik berbagai webpage buat nyari inspirasi wedding hairdo,
gue terinsipirasi banget sama Couple yang satu ini... SO BEAUTIFUL!
Credit goes to Eric and Jessica from Amara Pictures
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| Beautiful hairdo for Reception |
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| Beautiful hairdo for the Ceremony |
Arghh!! me want me want me want!!! :mewek :narikinrambutsampepanjang
Labels: Hairdo, Makeup, MUA, WeddingPreparation
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Hm...
banyak yang kayaknya protes ma keputusan FIX gue dan lelaki gue untuk nunda anak...
dan anehnya justru protes dateng dari some other people..errr.. let's called them "Narnia People"... yang bukan berasal dari kawanan keluarga karena mereka ngerti banget kenapa gue mau nunda anak.
*Warning: Sebelum loe baca, ini adalah pemikiran orang yang membiayai semuanya sendiri like me and my fiancee. We are not that lucky for having BBG alias (Bank Babe Gue) so we really need to fight for things from the begining. It's not bad buat yang punya BBG, but for us... we really can't afford that luxurious things in the same time
Anyway menurut gue is THE REASONS ARE TOTALLY DEBATABLE!
1. "Punya anak jangan ditunda-tunda. Nanti malah ga dikasih sama Tuhan."
- Oh pleaseee....Gue dan Laki gue ketika Married akan sangat muda: We're 25 y.o and 24 y.o. It takes a lot of guts for us even to get married. Kalau gue, percaya banget Tuhan gue Tuhan yang baik. Kalau emang Tuhan mau kasih, kapanpun bisa dikasih.... I believe He has the right time for me and my partner to have a decendant on earth. So why should I afraid of it? As long as gue ga pending dengan berbagai pil or else. Just keep it natural like how God's want it.
2. "Harta bisa dicari. Anak mah susah."
- Apa lu yakin cicil biaya rumah sementara lu tahu biaya ke dokter pas kehamilan itu ga murah?
- Apa lu uda itung biaya check up dokter?
- Apa lu yakin masih mau naik motor sementara lu bawa baby kecil yang keujanan atau apapun bisa sakit?
- Apa lu yakin masih mau punya anak padahal lu masih tinggal sama ortu atau tinggal di studio apartment?
- Apa lu yakin bayi lu gak mau lu kasih susu terbaik atau makanan terbaik atau pengobatan terbaik karena lu sibuk cicil rumah, cicil mobil, cicil utang kartu kredit sedangkan gaji lu ga seberapa?
- Apa lu yakin lu mau gitu-gitu aja dalam berkarir karena ya lu uda sibuk sama anak lu? or lelaki lu uda pusing banget cari pinjeman sana sini sana sini demi ngebiayain anak lu?
- Apa lu yakin mau anak lu tumbuh sama "hutang"?
3. "Kalau lu punya anak, suami lu jadi terikat." - Oh please.... we're getting married bukan buat ngoyo punya anak. We're getting married to enjoy the present of each other and work on God's mission on earth... So with or without child, we are created to become one...
- Lagian kalo dasarnya tukang selingkuh mah, mau ada atau ga ada anak... Lelaki mah bisa nebar benih dimana-mana... Lu tahu sendiri kan contoh kasusnya uda banyak?
4. "Kalau nunggu kaya mah ga akan abisnya. Bisa-bisa ga punya anak selamanya lu."
- Duh, please deh! Siapa juga yang nunggu kaya. Lagian apa sih definisi kaya? Yang gue maksud disini adalah "Settled" at least yaaaa:
- Rumah lu uda fix lah cicilannya selama 1-2 tahun..
- Gaji lu pasangan masing-masing uda di atas 10 juta (buat Jakarta ya...) dengan karir yang mantap dan posisi yang mantap
- Mobil cicilan uda kebayar setengahnya lah.. atau dikasih mobil kantor kek.
- Hutang perabotan uda ga ada
- Hutang kartu kredit uda lunas
- Apalagi Hutang Kuliah S2 #ngakak
- Jadi anak lu bukan gede sama HUTANG! Damn I hate "allowance" so much! (kecuali KPR+Mobil)
5. "Banyak orang sampe susah banget punya anak, elu yang sehat gak mau punya."
- Bukan gak mau punya, bu... Tapi waktunya belum tepat. Lagian, apa mereka sadar kalau anak itu adalah "Rencana Tuhan"? Percuma ngoyo ke dokter, operasi ini itu, cari ini itu kalau Tuhan belum mau kasih anak mah. Karena gue liat sendiri nyokap rajin minum pil KB setelah kelahiran Gue dan adik gue, eh... tahu-tahu 10 tahun kemudian... dia aja ga percaya dia bisa hamil lagi anak terakhir. See? That's God's plan. Not yours.
For us: 1. Child is one hell of big responsibility which we need to prepare everything the best for him. We don't want to give the worst condition... Kalau kata orang mah "Biar orangtua makan angin, yang penting anak makan nasi." Masa orangtuanya masih cuma makan angin, ga bisa biaya makan nasi... kita kasih angin aja ,yang penting anaknya hidup gituh?
2. Give the child THE BEST not "cuma mampunya segini ya uda". Anak mah dkasih makan nasi+garem juga bisa gede... but well... we're not going to do that. We want to give the best for our child. Klo perlu makan steak setiap hari... tinggal di mansion gede... pendidikan sekolah internasional... Jangan cuma dijadikan impian tapi kenyataan...
and most importantly....
3. Prepare your mental to face the child. Anak gak akan cuma lucu, dikasih minum susu dll. Dia akan tumbuh besar dan banyak sekali mental yang harus dipersiapkan dalam masa-masa pertumbuhannya. Banyak orang yang punya anak tapi belum siap mentalnya sebagai orang tua dan pada akhirnya depresi atau salah dalam mengasuh anaknya. Well, that's not going to happen to us.... Kita akan prepare mental batin dan lahir kita untuk menyambut anak itu. Baik dari financial juga dari kesiapan mental kita berdua jadi orang tua... Rumah dan Mobil aja kita belum punya. Karir aja belum mantap, dan terutama mental belum siap!
Right now...?
Nahhh... we're REALLY SURE we're not ready. Masih ABG, bo! Masih pengen pacaraaaan #ngakak Mau honeymoon everyday...
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| Duh pasangan masih kaya Baby gini disuruh punya "Babies" (-_-")zzzz |
Dipending sampai kapan?
Kewongan aja belom... mana kita tahu dipending sampe kapan... Let God tell us by Himself deh ya... Cheers!
Labels: Baby, Family, Life, Motherhood
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So my mom just had her birthday on 30th of January
but she decided to celebrate it on 31th with D'cost "age" promo...
before you ask me further bout "age promo" at D'cost restaurant...
just visit their website... it's explained there... COMPLETELY!
I and P-kun ran early from our office and decided to give her some surprise
when she waiting in the restaurant...
lol.. so, here're some snap of my Mom's birthday bash...
It's very out of what you call "elegance" and we really celebrated it in the very modest way however we were still happy also blessed in the middle of limitation ;)
Check it out!
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| Kue Surprise dari Calon Mantu |
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| Oh My Dad also had his birthday on 15th January |
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| Happy Birthday Song |
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| Blow the candle after your wish,Mom |
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| Newly Wed cut their cake together ;p |
So Happy 21st,Mom ;) I hope you enjoy your new age and stay young foreverrrrr!!!
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R wanna kill P-kun for this...
R mean it! #rage
Labels: Blackberry, Converstation, Ramble, Random, valentine
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and haven't done anything to be called a progress...
at least... have finished my Decoration mapping for Sinema Wedding Hall... and oh not forgetting for the cute ring basket to put my Guinea Pig
for the church not yet done :( the mapping... since haven't decided which church yet...
Apa itu Decoration Mapping?
Ini sebenernya panduan untuk mempermudah orang dekor bikin sketch.
Jadi lu bisa taro elemen2 apa aja yang lu mau serta ambience apa dan jangan lupa tulis + taro gambar benda-benda apa yang lu mau di titik-titik venue tersebut.
Ini example Decoration Mapping gue *sneakpeak*:
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| Salah satu titik untuk Decoration Mapping |
Oh have I told you I'm going to use my two from three piggies to carry my ring???
Here're my super cuties of honor:
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| Her Name is Bolluw |
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| and this one is Chippy |
They will be carried in this basket... (I"ll handmade it)
also already decided the model for the suit, bridesmaid and groomsmen...but still menggalau atas warna jas between silvery grey atau dark grey atau white... #pingsan
Anyhow... catch up with you later :kiss Labels: Decoration, DecorationMapping, RingBasket, Ringpillow, WeddingPreparation
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Like I've said before...
I'm crazy about vintage-ing style..
and me with P-kun already agree about ONE hairstyle that all the men (yes I repeat: THE MEN means; my dad, his dad and our brothers) must use at our wedding...
The sleek hairstyle like the mafia in GODFATHER! yea yea yea yea!!
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| The God Father |
It'll be CRAZY wedding! LOL! but I love it and P-kun love the idea the most! Labels: Grooms hairstyle, hairstyle, WeddingPreparation
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| The Vintage Groomsmen |
Because the theme of Vintage wedding with laces and everything... Another star we musn't forget (of course I musn't forget) is my Soon Gonna Be Husband dress...
which... we both really considering making tail tuxedo to make it so vintage!
But we still keep open mind since R's mom keep protesting about the tuxedo will be useless and can't be used anymore... but, MOM! it's tail tuxedo and it's vintage! #cryingOver and when your daughter use that princessy ball gown, her man should be in TAIL TUXEDO!!! #banginghead
Anyway.. here's some of the attire that probably P-kun will like (Haven't consult it with him)
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| Tail Tuxedo |
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| Another style of Tail Tuxedo |
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| Like it the most |
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| So Damn Sexy! Especially the cane, dammit! |
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| I won't say it no more |
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| Simple but somehow so vintage |
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| Simple yet exagerating |
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| The "NOW" one is very beautiful |
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| Amazing Grey |
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| This is cute but I guess not too elegant and very not P-kun style |
Let's see what kind of clothes that will be his liking or friendly to our budget because tail tuxedo will use extra cost because the extra fabric they must use for its lengthy tail.
Now the job is: Between Jazzy hat or Tail hat or Bowl Hat
I really hope I can find the tail or bowl hat in Indonesia though ;)
another #crossfinger
Labels: grooms attire, suit, tuxedo, WeddingPreparation
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I really can't take out this picture out of my head when I call "vintage"
a dream of seeing guys in suspender and newspaper boy are playing in my head...
so I'll make it come true ;)
Ladies and gentleman, this style will surely BE my GROOMSMEN style:
How you can't die to see handsome man lining up on that sexy suspender? P-kun, you better start search for your groomsmen OR I'll choose it for you! and you already know who's I'm going to search right? #smirking #evilly
Labels: Groomsmen attire, WeddingPreparation
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Have been thinking about my bridesmaid style because my dress will be fluffy and laces and vintage... So I do want them to be dressed like that too ;) Fluffy, white but in sexy part...
So these are some examples of the models :
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| Look at the skirt details! |
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| I heart the details!!! |
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| The Back is sexy |
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| Simple version maybe? |
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| Heart this the most!!! |
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| This is SO PRETTY and vintage! |
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| Look at the back! OMG I'm dying! |
Please God... make it come trueee >o<
Labels: Bridesmaid, MiniDress, WeddingPreparation
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| A Shoes That I dreamt by Georgina Goodman |
An antique Welsh lace pump with
Scottish seed pearls and pearl-inspired heel. "I wanted to create something special with an intrinsic emotional value; something old and at the same time mirroring Kate’s fresh modernity. ... I have aimed for a balance between history and femininity fitting the occasion; a kind of luxury recycling."
Hm... karena R terinspirasi dengan vintage dan lace and pearl... R sepertinya akan membuat sepatu customade di Donnamici... dan inilah beberapa nominasi yang ingin dibuat oleh R!
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| Pear exagerating details! |
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| Lace and pearl |
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| Vintage Lace yang cantik from Valentino. I heart this the most! |
Let's hope that Donamici can make my dream come true! :crossfinger
The shoes that fits one person pinch another; There's no recipe for living that fits all cases -Carl Gustav Jung- Labels: Shoes, WeddingPreparation
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Okay... so until per today, ini yang sudah fix FIX FIX:
BRIDELABIL QUICK REVIEW
Venue : Sinema Wedding Hall Bride Gown : Kristoofer and Rick (includes accesories, veil dan sarung tangan) Jas Groom : Paket dari Sinema Wedding Hall namun harus upgrade M.U.A : Mila Dewi Katering : Gloria (tinggal DP gubuk) Dekorasi : Pake dari Sinema (belum tentuin vendor) Liputan+Prewed : 9 photography dan Paket Sinema Baju Bridesmaid : Beli mangdu atau sewa bikin baru di Moishells Baju groomsmen : Bretel+topi beli di mangdu aja yang murmer Jas 2 Papa : Jasmania.com Jas 3 Adik : Jasmania.com Baju 2 Mama : antara bikin atau sewa Baju 2 Kakak : gue suruh seragam aja beli kain (-_-") jahit sendiri MUA Keluarga + Bridesmaid+PenerimaTamu : Tim Mila Dewi Cincin : Belum tahu Mobil : Paket gedung Kue : Paket gedung Undangan : Paket gedung-> desain minta temen yang baik Souvenir : Paket gedung WO : Ada WO gereja khusus Abbalove+Paket Gedung Entertainment : MC/pemusik paketan aja dari gedung/katering. Gue nambah band gereja gue aja.
Oke Sekian review sejauh ini... dan sekarang harus mengumpulkan uang sebanyak mungkin untuk melunasi tagihan 20% dari Gedung... Huhahuha... SEMANGAT AKU PASTI BISAAA!
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R punya mainan baru this lately call: "PIXLR-O-MATIC"
silahkan digoogle aja yaaa... untuk cari tahu gimana caranya...
yang pasti,segera setelah laptop baru sampai di rumah... R langsung mendownload si Pixlr-O-Matic ini karena seru banget mainannya!
Check out beberapa hasil goblok-goblokan R :p
So fun and cute isn't it?? ;) Labels: Anonymous, PhotoEditing, Pixlr-O-Matic, Random
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Du du du du...
Setelah bolak-balik berbagai webpage buat nyari inspirasi wedding hairdo,
gue terinsipirasi banget sama Couple yang satu ini... SO BEAUTIFUL!
Credit goes to Eric and Jessica from Amara Pictures
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| Beautiful hairdo for Reception |
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| Beautiful hairdo for the Ceremony |
Arghh!! me want me want me want!!! :mewek :narikinrambutsampepanjang
Labels: Hairdo, Makeup, MUA, WeddingPreparation
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Hm...
banyak yang kayaknya protes ma keputusan FIX gue dan lelaki gue untuk nunda anak...
dan anehnya justru protes dateng dari some other people..errr.. let's called them "Narnia People"... yang bukan berasal dari kawanan keluarga karena mereka ngerti banget kenapa gue mau nunda anak.
*Warning: Sebelum loe baca, ini adalah pemikiran orang yang membiayai semuanya sendiri like me and my fiancee. We are not that lucky for having BBG alias (Bank Babe Gue) so we really need to fight for things from the begining. It's not bad buat yang punya BBG, but for us... we really can't afford that luxurious things in the same time
Anyway menurut gue is THE REASONS ARE TOTALLY DEBATABLE!
1. "Punya anak jangan ditunda-tunda. Nanti malah ga dikasih sama Tuhan."
- Oh pleaseee....Gue dan Laki gue ketika Married akan sangat muda: We're 25 y.o and 24 y.o. It takes a lot of guts for us even to get married. Kalau gue, percaya banget Tuhan gue Tuhan yang baik. Kalau emang Tuhan mau kasih, kapanpun bisa dikasih.... I believe He has the right time for me and my partner to have a decendant on earth. So why should I afraid of it? As long as gue ga pending dengan berbagai pil or else. Just keep it natural like how God's want it.
2. "Harta bisa dicari. Anak mah susah."
- Apa lu yakin cicil biaya rumah sementara lu tahu biaya ke dokter pas kehamilan itu ga murah?
- Apa lu uda itung biaya check up dokter?
- Apa lu yakin masih mau naik motor sementara lu bawa baby kecil yang keujanan atau apapun bisa sakit?
- Apa lu yakin masih mau punya anak padahal lu masih tinggal sama ortu atau tinggal di studio apartment?
- Apa lu yakin bayi lu gak mau lu kasih susu terbaik atau makanan terbaik atau pengobatan terbaik karena lu sibuk cicil rumah, cicil mobil, cicil utang kartu kredit sedangkan gaji lu ga seberapa?
- Apa lu yakin lu mau gitu-gitu aja dalam berkarir karena ya lu uda sibuk sama anak lu? or lelaki lu uda pusing banget cari pinjeman sana sini sana sini demi ngebiayain anak lu?
- Apa lu yakin mau anak lu tumbuh sama "hutang"?
3. "Kalau lu punya anak, suami lu jadi terikat." - Oh please.... we're getting married bukan buat ngoyo punya anak. We're getting married to enjoy the present of each other and work on God's mission on earth... So with or without child, we are created to become one...
- Lagian kalo dasarnya tukang selingkuh mah, mau ada atau ga ada anak... Lelaki mah bisa nebar benih dimana-mana... Lu tahu sendiri kan contoh kasusnya uda banyak?
4. "Kalau nunggu kaya mah ga akan abisnya. Bisa-bisa ga punya anak selamanya lu."
- Duh, please deh! Siapa juga yang nunggu kaya. Lagian apa sih definisi kaya? Yang gue maksud disini adalah "Settled" at least yaaaa:
- Rumah lu uda fix lah cicilannya selama 1-2 tahun..
- Gaji lu pasangan masing-masing uda di atas 10 juta (buat Jakarta ya...) dengan karir yang mantap dan posisi yang mantap
- Mobil cicilan uda kebayar setengahnya lah.. atau dikasih mobil kantor kek.
- Hutang perabotan uda ga ada
- Hutang kartu kredit uda lunas
- Apalagi Hutang Kuliah S2 #ngakak
- Jadi anak lu bukan gede sama HUTANG! Damn I hate "allowance" so much! (kecuali KPR+Mobil)
5. "Banyak orang sampe susah banget punya anak, elu yang sehat gak mau punya."
- Bukan gak mau punya, bu... Tapi waktunya belum tepat. Lagian, apa mereka sadar kalau anak itu adalah "Rencana Tuhan"? Percuma ngoyo ke dokter, operasi ini itu, cari ini itu kalau Tuhan belum mau kasih anak mah. Karena gue liat sendiri nyokap rajin minum pil KB setelah kelahiran Gue dan adik gue, eh... tahu-tahu 10 tahun kemudian... dia aja ga percaya dia bisa hamil lagi anak terakhir. See? That's God's plan. Not yours.
For us: 1. Child is one hell of big responsibility which we need to prepare everything the best for him. We don't want to give the worst condition... Kalau kata orang mah "Biar orangtua makan angin, yang penting anak makan nasi." Masa orangtuanya masih cuma makan angin, ga bisa biaya makan nasi... kita kasih angin aja ,yang penting anaknya hidup gituh?
2. Give the child THE BEST not "cuma mampunya segini ya uda". Anak mah dkasih makan nasi+garem juga bisa gede... but well... we're not going to do that. We want to give the best for our child. Klo perlu makan steak setiap hari... tinggal di mansion gede... pendidikan sekolah internasional... Jangan cuma dijadikan impian tapi kenyataan...
and most importantly....
3. Prepare your mental to face the child. Anak gak akan cuma lucu, dikasih minum susu dll. Dia akan tumbuh besar dan banyak sekali mental yang harus dipersiapkan dalam masa-masa pertumbuhannya. Banyak orang yang punya anak tapi belum siap mentalnya sebagai orang tua dan pada akhirnya depresi atau salah dalam mengasuh anaknya. Well, that's not going to happen to us.... Kita akan prepare mental batin dan lahir kita untuk menyambut anak itu. Baik dari financial juga dari kesiapan mental kita berdua jadi orang tua... Rumah dan Mobil aja kita belum punya. Karir aja belum mantap, dan terutama mental belum siap!
Right now...?
Nahhh... we're REALLY SURE we're not ready. Masih ABG, bo! Masih pengen pacaraaaan #ngakak Mau honeymoon everyday...
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| Duh pasangan masih kaya Baby gini disuruh punya "Babies" (-_-")zzzz |
Dipending sampai kapan?
Kewongan aja belom... mana kita tahu dipending sampe kapan... Let God tell us by Himself deh ya... Cheers!
Labels: Baby, Family, Life, Motherhood
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So my mom just had her birthday on 30th of January
but she decided to celebrate it on 31th with D'cost "age" promo...
before you ask me further bout "age promo" at D'cost restaurant...
just visit their website... it's explained there... COMPLETELY!
I and P-kun ran early from our office and decided to give her some surprise
when she waiting in the restaurant...
lol.. so, here're some snap of my Mom's birthday bash...
It's very out of what you call "elegance" and we really celebrated it in the very modest way however we were still happy also blessed in the middle of limitation ;)
Check it out!
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| Kue Surprise dari Calon Mantu |
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| Oh My Dad also had his birthday on 15th January |
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| Happy Birthday Song |
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| Blow the candle after your wish,Mom |
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| Newly Wed cut their cake together ;p |
So Happy 21st,Mom ;) I hope you enjoy your new age and stay young foreverrrrr!!!
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Kita berdua adalah pasangan paling "aneh" mungkin.
Dari cara jadian yang aneh serta sifat yang aneh (kami sangat bertolak belakang)
Mengapa foto yang terpajang hanyalah sesedikit itu?
Jawabannya adalah: Karena sudah terlalu banyak foto dan kenangan yang kami berdua delete ketika 'putus'
Tapi jangan salah bilang kami berdua adalah pasangan 'Putus-Sambung'
Karena, meski selama 4 tahun perjalanan putus-sambung kami cukup sering,
namun putus terlama yang tercatat adalah 2 Hari dan itupun sekali seumur hidup.
Dan sisanya hanya 1 menit (-_-)
Aku masih terus belajar dalam hubungan ini. Dan diapun masih belajar juga.
Kami masih sama-sama belajar untuk menjadi pasangan yang sesuai bagi satu yang lainnya.
Memang kami aneh
Tapi kami saling jatuh cinta :)
Dan mungkin, ada jutaan pasangan lain yang seperti kami :) karena setiap hubungan itu spesial, unik dan menyenangkan.
Penuh cinta,
Rachalda
Email: Ourramble@.....com
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Pratama dan Rachalda
24 and 23 Years Old
Couple
Crazy
Blunt
Weirdo
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Gue cuma menulis apa yang biasa gue berdua "blak-blakin" dalam percakapan kami berdua
yang terkadang konyol dan tak masuk akal :) sebagai rekaman akan perjalanan kami berdua selama ini.
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